While all these tactics may seem sneaky, remember that your goal here is to get your ex back with you - not to make friends.By now, you should've firmly implanted yourself inside your ex boyfriend's head.Hopefully he'll ask to meet you somewhere, but if he doesn't, then you should ask him.Pick a very innocent and neutral spot, like a Starbucks or a coffee shop.Left alone for a few days he'll eventually contact you, either through email, text message, or phone call - just to see if you're still there for him.Here's where you need to set up a solo meeting or date with your ex boyfriend.This in turn is going to annoy him - which is exactly what you want.When you see this happening, it's time to start the friendly phone calls.
Even though he's in another relationship, he doesn't want this.
This means that no matter how many fights you might've had, your ex boyfriend has far more memories of fun things you did together than he does of times that were not so great.
As you talk, make excuses to casually bring up some of these great times.
As you invade his thoughts, you're going to unknowingly and increasingly become a topic of conversation in his life.
This will make her angry and defensive, and she's going to try and pull him away from anything to do with you.