We have a relationship with money,” (no reaction) “We have a relationship with our body and health.” Target: “Yes, I totally stress about my body too much! ” The use of so-called “awareness words” can help, as well.Notice the use of “you know” in the response, above.Cold reading according to Wikipedia is defined as: [A] series of techniques used by mentalists, psychics, fortune tellers, mediums and illusionists to determine or express details about another person, often in order to convince them that the reader knows much more about a subject than they actually do.
Okay, it’s time to have an open and frank discussion about the battle of the sexes and the dating game.
For example, “You look confident, but I can tell you sometimes have a lot of self doubt.” “You’re very outgoing, but I’ll bet you get really shy sometimes,” or something like that.
These work because the “hidden” quality is something that applies to everyone.
The two services used by these individuals were OKCupid and Match.com, two of the largest and most popular dating websites on the Internet.
What I learned from carrying out an interview of a female and the interview of a male trying to dig into this intriguing subject was that using the Internet for dating is equally painful for men and for women, but for very different reasons.