It could be anything from taking walks, to cooking on Sunday afternoons, to watching a particular show… They say opposites attract and I’ve found that to be true.
However, when you are dating someone who is very different from yourself, it helps to emphasize the common ground. They do not care much for small talk, they want meaningful communication.
Would you rather date an American woman vs German woman?
Would you rather date an Indian Woman with a princess complex vs a Asian Woman who is self hating of her race and look up to WHITE people?
Then when you’re both recharged you can spend time together doing whatever.
I can’t tell you how to do this, you just need to talk to the person you’re dating.
The dead giveaway is that they assume all introverts are shy and that being shy is the only significant distinction of introverts. When an introvert and extrovert are dating, balance is not just ideal – it’s a requirement.
So most advice will show you how to break your poor little introverted girlfriend/boyfriend out of their shell. Introverts Need Space You need to balance the time you spend with your introverted partner and the time you allow them to spend alone. Life as an introvert is different than life as an extrovert. Some introverts work to build a social life, while others prefer to ride solo most of the time.
I don’t mean keep it a secret – unless it’s something you guys don’t want to share.Find out when they like to be alone and respect that time.Don’t Expect Them to ALWAYS Tag-Along I know you want them to go with you everywhere, but the relationship won’t work if you expect them to always want to tag-along. Instead of meeting all 20 of your friends at once, try to find activities to introduce them to smaller groups at a time. Introverts like to get to know people individually and it’s very overwhelming to try to get to know 20 new people in one evening.However, you likely share some similar interests or you wouldn’t be dating. It’s not going to be very fun if one of you has to compromise in every situation.It’s important to find hobbies or interests that you two share so both of you are having a great time together.