If he is direct and clear in his leadership, however, everyone wins.” The ambiguous type will always be indirect and will never be transparent.If you’re not straightforward, and you’re mysterious, dating you won’t be enjoyable.When a man is really present when they’re with a woman, is open about his feelings for her and is showing genuine interest – that makes dating enjoyable. The key is to only date people who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.Why would she want to feel anxious or uncertain because his actions and words aren’t matching up and he is frustratingly indirect?However, it’s pretty hard to come across as a confident man if you’re indifferent, indirect or passive.Confidence stems from being secure with yourself, and secure men are always direct and straightforward with both themselves and others.
Passive men are a dime a dozen, and most women can’t stand passive men.
The beauty of being direct is that your woman can feel confident knowing that if something is bothering you, you’ll at least talk about it, which puts her over-thinking mind at ease.
Certified Divorce Coach Arianna Jeret is well aware what tends to cause friction in relationships, and explains how to avoid conflict and wasted time: “If a man is direct and open, he is much easier to trust.
When there is clarity and direction, she feels relaxed.
When a woman is salsa dancing, if her man is unsure and waivers she is then forced to step into a masculine, leading role even though she would prefer him to lead. If she can’t trust his movements, they step on one another’s toes.