Ask five women what their ideal male build is and you’ll get six different answers.
Take, for example, this image from a feature in the UK periodical The Sun; they flipped the script by posing ordinary men in underwear ads a la David Beckham or Christiano Ronaldo: women prefer large and burly even when society insists that they only like guys who look like they’re 3% body fat.
In fact, having sex with a large woman is kind of a fetish for me. I look back and think about how stupid I was to reject the girl who was obviously attracted to me, just because of her weight. It's not like people have control over their own sexuality! And the most common answer is: “I worry that I’m too fat to date.” I’ll be honest: I’m not surprised. According to the Center for Disease Control, 69% of adults 20 years old and over are overweight and 35% are considered obese.And yet even when the number of people who are considered overweight form the majority of the population, obesity is in many ways one of the remaining acceptable prejudices.Your overall shape is going to be controlled by your bone structure and genetics as much as is by your diet and exercise.Some people simply have long, skinny frames and will be lean and lanky no matter how much they try to bulk up.