And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
When men act out in whatever way they act out, you’ll find what I just described at the heart of the matter: a deep feeling of separateness, insignificance and undesirability.
Most guys would never admit to feeling anything like that.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I do not understand why he won’t stop flirting with other girls.
I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions in your question…
But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.
and maybe learn something valuable about your guy in the process (maybe some need that he still needs met).because I know there are women reading this thinking, “Why should a woman do for this flirtatious disrespectful pig of a man? Here’s the deal – you’re asking me this question because you do not find his behavior acceptable. A guy always knows a woman’s limit is measured by how much she’s willing to tolerate.And yet, you’ve been demonstrating to him that you’re OK with it. Women feel this instinctively and will usually try to put up a front, claiming that they won’t stand for his bad behavior and making empty threats.The fact is, he has these sexy flirtations with other women, but you don’t really know why…you don’t know his motivation or what he “gets” from it.