This is devastating knowledge for the child who will be afraid, angry, depressed, rebellious or guilty and will act out these emotions in one way or another.This is a time when children need extra care and more attention.Although emotional, psychological and financial abuse are not criminal behaviors, they are forms of abuse and can lead to criminal violence.The violence takes many forms and can happen all the time or once in a while.You are single but not ready to mingle and are flummoxed by the kind of unnecessary attention that you are suddenly getting.It can make you very uncomfortable and unsure of yourself.
If you cannot mend your relationship, it may be best to move on, because children sense what is going on, they know when you are not truly happy and the pretense of a false marriage is also detrimental to their well being.Be honest with them about what is going on and encourage them to express their feelings.Don’t presume that it is better to carry on with the failing marriage in order to protect the children.At least you now know exactly what your mother thinks of you. You will meet like-minded people, those who have been through similar experiences.So perhaps it’s the universe’s way of getting rid of the deadwood that you wasted time on. There’s a better, truer friend waiting round the next bend. Prey Anything male prowls around you suggestively (and if you’re a man, everyone is suspicious of you because you’re such an oddity).