Dating older men for an Indonesian girl is not necessarily seen as a bad thing, because older men are deemed more adequate to provide girls with the security they need.
Yet, the age difference may also be a difficulty because it adds to the incomprehension between the two partners.
It may not be a problem at the beginning, but soon, some issues will appear: Who needs to pay for the restaurant?
For the plane ticket to Bali when you go on holidays?
If you don't give her this freedom, she will take it behind your back anyway.
Cultural Differences: Different conceptions of love, of the role of men/women in a couple, etc..: This topic has often been debated on other websites and it is one of the most interesting when considering your relation with your girlfriend.
- Even for small amounts, do not give the impressions that money isn't important for you.- If she asks you money for her family, take the matter seriously.Visit them, and make sure that everyone is doing its share too, including all the relatives.If you find out she is lying to you, do not tolerate it and walk away from the relationship.- Control yourself: Adapt your lifestyle too and try to spend less than usual.