" across its membership materials.) Go to the site and you'll find a community of brashly straightforward people, with every profile very clearly defining precisely what the person wants.
This simplifies things."In the weeks that followed, I would interview a lot of men and women who use the site, and the line "I'm busy so I don't have time to get to know someone" came up over and over again.
I went a step further—and broke the rules a bit—to meet up with D, the finance guy, in person.
He automatically had a strike against him because he made me schlep to a hotel bar even though I'd hinted it was inconvenient for me (and was, fun fact, a block away from his apartment).
We exchanged stories over endless rounds of lobster and champagne, toasting to life, to my PR contact, to our good fortune.
We had, as I've mentioned, a lot in common, so conversation flowed easily.