Granted, I’d have to give the brother an “A” for style and originality, but when I said to her, “Wow, he must be paid! He’s living with his mother right now, but he just really likes me.” All I could think was, 'This fool must have fallen and bumped her head.
I understand it may have been a flattering gesture, but don’t reward a man with attention and praise for foolishness.' Now, if he has no problem affording lavish gifts, that’s another story.
If he approaches you with a flattering, yet rehearsed line — RED FLAG.9.
If he says he has a job but can’t articulate exactly what it is he does for a living— RED FLAG.10.
When he feels completely comfortable and content, you’ve lost him. You want him to see the benefits of marrying you rather than keeping you merely as a girlfriend. He can think you’re the finest thing walking the earth, but if you become the aggressor, taking his rightful place, he will divert his attention elsewhere.But if the brother is broke, you have to question his motivations (and his sanity). This brings me to my next point: RELATED: The 4 mistakes that cost this man his marriage Don’t ignore the red flags.He must use whatever tactics are at his disposal to get the go-ahead for intimacy from a woman. Some women are notorious for turning a blind eye to the warning signs, even if they’re staring them right in the face.It means you should take a critical look before going forward.There’s a saying that goes, “Young men speak of the things they are doing, old men speak of things they did, and fools speak of the things they’re about to do.” Don’t be impressed by the unimpressive.