But if you are 35 , women in their early 20s would never want you, right? First, you must realize that many younger women are more attracted to older men than they are to those drones their own age.They want someone who is sensitive, mature, and experienced. So you want to find those 20-year olds who want an older man.There's a LOT more info about that at: Bad Boy Secrets Here's another email along the same lines...Dear Guys, I'm a divorced father of two kids, in my mid-40s and just now back on the dating scene after being married for 15 years.This works, but often doesn't work so well with women who are in-demand, "out of your league," or stuck-up because they are so attractive.For those women, you MUST be able to "disconnect" so she feels drawn toward you.But by being a good father, you are more attractive to these women then guys who are unproven in relationships and with families.
But those aren't minuses - they're plusses, if you play your cards right.At the same time, don't draw attention to her comparative youth.The worst is to lecture her about how you were when you were her age, and what you have learned. Create experiences that she normally wouldn't have - a date off-campus, an interesting restaurant (don't spend too much), or a drive in the country.But I’ve noticed a new strategy among my set of female friends—lovely, intelligent, independent women—to combat the grime of the online dating world: date up. More and more women I know are dating men twice, yes , Anne Hathaway stands with Robert De Niro and a bunch of young male colleagues in a bar and draws a harsh comparison: “How in one generation have men gone from guys like Jack Nicholson and Harrison Ford to . I see what Hathaway means: Why put up with Tinder when there’s a whole generation of men out there who wouldn’t dream of using it?There have never been more advantages to relationships with older men, precisely because Tinder and its ilk have made dating feel impossible to those of us who don’t want to participate in the battle of who-cares-less.