As far as you’re concerned, this is Day One – only wasteland came before it.
Don’t get hung up on tops and bottoms or everything in between Yes, you know what you like, but if you’re looking for a relationship, it’s not just about what goes where and who’ll be standing on their head or whatever.
The idea that men who put out aren’t good enough to take home to meet our mother is nonsense. Sex alone won’t ruin everything, believe me, plenty of other things can go wrong.
The Guyliner has been writing about gay dating since 2010 and is also a columnist at Gay Times Magazine.
Whether we’re reluctant to perpetuate the stereotype that gay men are promiscuous, or tell ourselves boys who give it up on the first date are less desirable, we certainly think too much about this one.Don’t dismiss guys you meet on an app Not everyone on a hookup app is looking for sex and even if they are, who gives a toss?We are all grownups and it’s not how you met that’s important but the fact you did at all. If you just want sex, be upfront Some guys are going on dates to meet the love of their lives, others aren’t quite sure what they’re looking for, while others are definitely after just one thing.We’re reducing men to body parts and stats; we need to cut it out.Avoid regular haunts When you start dating, don’t go to places you bar-hopped during your bachelor days.