The Don'ts:"A lot of people show up to a relationship with baggage," Dr. "I mean they haven't done an autopsy on their prior relationship, they have unfinished emotional business.
They come in, they've got a chip on their shoulder.
It was found in many psychological studies that female being more selective about their partners in general.
You're nodding while I'm talking and making eye contact with me and you just said 'right.' (Those are) three signs that you're tuned in to what I'm saying.
"These are conversational skills that encourage people to come along. And if you go out with somebody and they leave that date saying, 'she really liked me,' we like people who like us."If you're a great audience, people are going to love you.
"But one of the things you need to do are minimal encouragers, where you let the other person know, I'm hearing what you're saying.
I'm interested in what you're saying, with what you're doing right now.