Marriage ends up being that 6-hour drive to the kids’ house, and he doesn’t want to listen to a ninny talking about the latest sale at the Gap or what a horrible boss she has, or how unfair her life is. We are also unlikely to do the thing men dread them most: make them the sole determination of our happiness.It’s also about the logistics of a well-run life, and he doesn’t want someone who sits on the floor and sobs when the washing machine overflows. (You will see this repeatedly on Internet profiles.) Now here are some of the latest stats from the AARP.According to Trish Mc Dermott, at Match.com, the largest dating site, “The one thing that our research continually shows is that the older a person gets, the more he or she becomes a practical dater, as opposed to being emotionally driven.” This gives both sexes a better chance at a wise choice.Men in our age range have had a chance to learn what matters, and what makes or breaks a marriage.It's heart wrenching to see how much it tears a man apart to watch his wife be in danger when there is nothing he can do about it.I want you to understand how important it is to a man that he makes you feel safe and protected. Growing up, we weren't taught who men really are and what makes them tick.As one of my clients says, their former wife has trained them in some important areas, as has life, and in some cases, divorce; or they have used poor judgment, married someone unsuitable, and learned the hard way.There’s nothing like being able to eliminate immediately things, people and relationships that don’t work for you and when men can do this, it saves us all time.
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