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Also, they’re looking to date a human being, not a blue ribbon county fair marshal.The site grew exponentially, with fantastic reviews in the Daily Mail, Mirror, Guardian, Cosmopolitan, Computer Weekly and many other publications.We were nominated as Steve Wright's Web Site of the Day (BBC Radio 2) and a year later we got the accolade again!We were not set up as a business, but set up to try to make a genuine difference in people's lives.With tens of thousands of members in the UK, USA and all over the world, we're one of the premiere web sites for dating.