Not only will you be a sloppy, lazy, drooly lover with no rhythm, you also won't really figure your shit out.You will wake up hazy and not even remember if it was an experience you enjoyed.
Meanwhile, I was terrible at going down on her (though now I'm a fucking rockstar), my palms were sweating like I had fallen ill with the plague and my body was trembling like a weak building amidst a California earthquake. Don't do what I did because it's very off-putting (and it's negative energy) to get caught up in a lie.
Your lesbian big sister (me) once lived in that ~hazy~ territory, and Hyper-sexual thoughts about girls began to flood my brain around the age of tender age of 12. I thought boys were sort of cute, too; I even had kissed a few of them and managed not to vomit. However, before you rush over to your local lesbian bar ready to experiment with the first cute dyke you lay your curious eyes upon, there are a few rules you must abide by (unless you want to burn bridges and get blacklisted from the community). The truth is, we are existing in a time where the likelihood of meeting an attractive human at a bar is almost impossible.
But you know how I really figured out my sexuality? Sometimes, the only way to figure out if you like something is to just try it out. I didn't know how I felt about oysters until I popped a salty, lush oyster in my mouth. And you want to find a girl to ~sexually experiment~ with in random bar? Maybe it works that way in lesbian pornos, but real life isn't a lesbian porno (sadly).
In this blog, I’ve done a review of a number of major dating sites and I’d like to point out a common “oversight” which may serve as an example of how values get encoded in technology.
Namely, it is very difficult to be bisexual on a dating site.