With that pressure gone, you can really see a guy for who he is, and you realize very quickly whether this will be just a fling or if it has the potential for more. So much of dating is girls complaining about not being able to find a guy.So when we do finally find one, we hold on to him with all we’ve got despite the fact that he might not even be that good of a catch.Dating multiple men is a selfish way to date, but it’s the best way to have fun while figuring out the kind of person you want to be with.Emily Blackwood Emily is a writer, dog mom, and occasional narcissist living in what her mom refers to as “a bubble.” Geographically speaking, it’s more like Daytona Beach, Florida.By having multiple apples of your eye to distract you, you really won’t notice if one of them gets distant.
You don’t get all wigged out over guys you barely know.We love to hate on guys for being players, but really we should be learning a thing or two from them.Dating shouldn’t be a race to get into a relationship, but a time to have fun and explore the world until you meet someone you’re serious about — and dating multiple men is the only way to do that. Gone are feelings of pressure and questions of “What are we?” Dating more than one guy sets a clear standard that you’re not going to settle down without taking the time to really get to know someone.Dating stops being this anxiety-producing stage of a relationship where you’re constantly worrying about messing things up and becomes a phase of your life that you can actually enjoy. The more men you see, the more aware you are that they’re not all going to be your boyfriend someday.