when I listen too other people relationship, It only reminds me, of why I am alone by choice." " People don't realise .
The great plus to living alone is not having to go through the mess and discomfort of someone dying in your life when you are still going fairly strong.
I can cook what I like and come and go as I please and don't answer to anyway!
It is freeing." " Lost my hubby in a sudden at a young age, I was forced to live in solitude.
Once we ACCEPT the fact that we are on the RECEIVING END of Life, not the Choosing End, then we can accept being Alone and Appreciating what Little comes our way. I have no real BF at the moment and do not bring family and friends to my apt because they don't like my neighborhood ..is dangerous and not safe...of shootings and killings and drugs ..my family dislikes the ungrooms houses and so forth in the area and the aggressiveness of the people...
And if it was Significant, you had it better than Most. I am always seen travelling in and out of my neighborhood alone. And then I have one other friend who is married and 81.
write and talk to me and I'll tell you where I went and what I saw.
I am nearer to 70 than 60 but have a youthfull outlook ..... 2018 " " I have lived with others over the last 16 years snce I have left home. Single 36 year old female and no children I value my independence.
It had become a lot bigger and some of the tenants that I spoke to did not seem very positive about that place. I have decided to stay put at where I am because of financial reasons.E-mail: janphulrich (AT)gmail.com" " I do not get what you people are whining about being "alone" We always have been Alone. I love that freedom of doing things on my own without consulting anybody, I love to cook, relax at my own convenience without sticking to any schedule.If You want to be Yourself, then you will choose "Single" and be Honest to your "happiness" response. But it would be so very nice to have a friend/pal as I love travelling to see places/countries which I definitely cannot do all alone.I like to have my home to myself most of the time, I like friends and neighbours coming over...the piece and quiet when they have gone is lovely.Of course loving company is great........UNloving company?? Missing a loving partner due to death is dreadful........those friends who have passed on I miss but I still talk to them in my head, they are still very much alive to me its just that I cant see or hear them. ......the sun is shining and I am off out for a walk.