But for those of us that are a little more reserved, how do you get the guys to come to you?In order to figure out how to make things happen off the Internet, I spoke to expert Adam Lo Dolce, who gives advice to both men and women as "The Dating Confidence Coach".Additionally, while hanging with your guy friends is fun, you might want to leave them at home for a ladies' night once in a while.Men will avoid approaching you if you're with a guy, since "it's a man's worst nightmare to approach a girl and learn that it's her boyfriend standing right next to her."Tip #3: The Vibrant Vibe.According to Adam, the law of attraction is that like attracts like.By this he means if you want to attract fun and exciting guys, you've got to be fun and exciting yourself.
When I started chatting to Tim he was so understanding.
He says, "if you have the stink face' look all night and appear miserable, guess who you'll be attracting?
You guessed it, the creepers." Ugh, we all know the ones right?
So save the challenge for later, Adam advises: "Make it easy for them, open up your body, make eye contact and give them the clear signal that it's cool to break the ice. More advice from the experts: The Best Dating Advice From Moms Everywhere12 Dating DOs and DON' Ts Even Experts Follow: Stars of Bravo's New Show Miss Advised Share Their Advice Ask an Expert: Is My Sadness After a Breakup Normal, Or Is It Depression?
One the ice is broken, now you can tease him, test him and make him work for it..the way he likes it."Tip #5: The 5 Minute Rule.