To them, middle-aged men who are still horny are simply hedonistic and immature. I have since learned to be a Man, respect myself, take charge, and not take this kind of crap from women. With societal strictures, you are expected to contain this within a relationship.That in itself is a huge sacrifice women should be grateful you have made.This is all so sad, but you know, life is shitty sometimes.I just keep working out, I am looking better every day, and as soon as I feel ready, I will jet.Women view sex as an extension of love and romance, and I believe this gives them a warped view of sexuality from the beginning.
I confess to using some of the "if only" excuses myself. Before I met her, she was burning through the one-night stands (and now threesomes) and estimates she’s had about 60-plus women by now.
If her idea of showing gratitude is laughing at your libido, show her ass the door. Our sex is good when we have it, good enough that I haven’t left yet—but I know in time I will. I have spoken with him numerous times about how unsatisfied I am and how ridiculous this all is. After 10 years in this relationship (four of them married), I get it.
Male and Normal Why didn’t you just tell NGU the truth? I am straight, married, a woman, a mother, and my husband has the libido of a gnat. It is never going to change, he is never going to change, we are never going to change.
The sulking that ensues doesn’t put me in a good frame of mind for a hot blowjob, however. " You’re right: Men have to learn that this isn’t a consolation prize. I am ready, willing, and able to get it on nearly 24/7.
How I would love to hear, "Hey honey, I hear that you’re not up for some marathon fucking tonight. My boyfriend occasionally has to spend a night alone at his place to give his body a chance to recover, because when we’re together we have sex an average of two to three times a day.