Of course your husband should not blame you and he must take responsibility for how he has hurt you with his online behaviour, but the two of you must take responsibility for improving the marriage.
Though it may be painful, the fact that you have started talking about issues is a good sign.
This will pique the interest of your crush and will make her more likely to respond to you right away.2. Asking a question is a great way to impress and flirt with your crush. This may seem trivial and unconnected, but if you were flirting with your crush in person, then you would make sure your outfit was neatly put-together and that your hair was in place. Try not to go overboard or your crush will be able to see that you're trying too hard.
It shows that you're not texting just because you feel like it, but because you want to keep a conversation going and that you care what he crush thinks. Therefore, if you're sending flirty messages, make sure you're using suitable punctuation and that your sentences are complete.4. Just relax and send a text when the time feels right. Be a little bit playful and make fun of your crush, and let them make fun of you back.
ASK THE EXPERT: QI have been married 10 years and we have four children aged 9, 7, 6 and 4.
Recently, I discovered that my husband has been using adult chat rooms online and seems to have been communicating in sexually explicit ways with other people.
My husband is a great father and has always been very hands-on with the children who really love him and I don’t want to end up separated.
I still feel really unhappy about what he has done.
Such intimacy is built on communication and friendship and leads to deep affection and a satisfying sex life.
However, creating this intimacy is hard work and much harder than the easy escapism of the internet or watching TV or even over-working or domestic chores.
Moving forward In the aftermath of discovering your husband’s online world, it is perfectly understandable that you might feel disgusted and betrayed and to worry as to how much you can trust your husband.
You might benefit from going to counselling especially if you feel traumatised and need to the help of an impartial listener to process some of the feelings.