It means you’re looking out for yourself and your partner.
Here are 6 signs that can help you tell if the person you’re dating is a jerk (or worse—abusive).
Also, remember that even if up to now they’ve focused the blame game on others, sooner or later there’s a good chance they’ll turn the attack on you. If your partner deals with problems in either of these ways, it’s a sign of emotional immaturity that could lead to a lot of resentment over time.
It can be tempting to make excuses for bad behavior, but at the end of the day, you deserve someone who loves you for who you are and always treats you with respect.
He should also care about the world around him, not just himself.
If the world revolves around your boyfriend, in his mind, it might be because he's a jerk!