I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.Again, women are horny as hell and crave sex badly.Almost never is the past sexual experience of the man a make-or-break issue for a woman. So I compounded the lie by telling another lie (this is one of the many reasons I don’t lie to women; lies necessitate other lies) and told her that I “hadn’t had sex for a year”.There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.Not that I read very many, but the ones I remember taking a look at were dreadfully bad.Moreover, some women actually prefer less experienced guys, because they think (rightly or wrongly) that they’re not “players”. In my early twenties as a virgin beta male, I lied to the woman I lost my virginity to and told her I had sex with “ten women” already. This turned her right back on again, and we had sex, and I lost my V-card. I was so ashamed about what I did that it took me many years to actually come clean and tell her she had been my first. If you’re not that experienced, don’t pretend to women that you’re more experienced than you are.
Back then, if you wanted to get laid or get a girlfriend, you had to do it the old fashioned way, which means you had to hope you got a job with some cute female co-workers, or hope you could get a buddy who was a “natural”, and then do your best to clone what he did.Always remember that when you want to say hi to that cute girl, or ask a girl out, regardless of the outcome she will be sweet about it. They assume that if they tell a woman of their inexperience, she’ll laugh at them and turn down sex for that reason alone.While it’s true there are a small percentage of women who prefer experienced men, the vast majority of women out there, I’d say at least 85%, do not give a about shit how sexually experienced you are.I’ll just summarize here by saying that if a woman rejects you, your irrational reaction is that ALL women will reject you. When I was doing daygame I had the exact same experience. That new girl you’re seeing you think is Not Like The Rest™ is actually JUST like the rest.There’s thousands more just like her in your city alone.