Remedy: If you haven’t, it might be a good idea to start getting your life organized.Not only will it be helpful in attracting a responsible man and in the overall happiness of a relationship, it will make you happier too! Poor Listening Skills One guy said, “It’s a turn off for me when a girl asks me a question but then doesn’t listen.They carry a lot of weight, and impact not only the people around you, but also how you feel too.
If you get nervous or don’t consider yourself a conversationalist, here are 3 easy take-aways: Ask a sincere question Listen to their answer while taking mental notes of hi-lights Ask follow up questions about what they just said. Lack of Ambition It is attractive to another person to see that you have your owns goals, interests and hobbies.
That being said, I interviewed a group of single and married men this weekend about their dating experiences. A girl who is constantly seeing the negative in everything or complaining about little things is a red flag to a guy.
As I spoke with them, they expressed the major things that turn them off in the dating phase. He wants to spend his time with someone who is refreshing and positive to the soul. No one likes to be around someone who brings them down.
I have had several comments on my Husband List article expressing the importance of holding ourselves to the same standard to which we do in a man.
If we want a great guy, then we need to be the kind of girl who will attract that guy.