But even while my relationships with non-Jewish girls fizzled, I still didn’t have any other options.Jewish girls often were interested in Jewish guys—many of these girls ended up dating and even marrying Jews; they just weren’t interested in dating high-pressure, community-survival minded, intense, and awkward me. While I was at school, I joined an online discussion forum where I began to chat with a non-Jewish girl named Alicia.Whether it’s on a dating site or in person, wait for the Jewish man to initiate contact.It’s another old school value, but it’s one that can increase the odds of success.
This can seem like an antiquated idea in modern times, but many Jewish men and women value modesty. Depending on how religious a person is, being alone with a member of the opposite sex can be considered sexual!
By the time I graduated, I’d still never been in anything approaching a serious relationship. She lived in New Hampshire, shared all of my nerdy hobbies, had a great sense of humor, and looked like a younger blonde version of geek icon Gillian Anderson from .
She had a great sense of humor, a wonderful smile, and an honesty that I found refreshing.
Meet moms, say hi to Jewish guys, and learn about the religion and culture.
Any Jewish man looking to start a family will value that kind of open-mindedness and dedication. Jewish men, like most other testosterone-driven creatures, like to make the first move.