I dont want to leave him, but he is pushing me away and I will eventually have to walk away. I found out that he was dating another young lady and myself for 2 years at the same time. I went back yo him because of the strong feelings I have for him.
But he continues to lie to me and tells me it’s me he wants but he is constantly texting the other lady and telling her he really misses her and wants to be with her.
The other woman told me that he is only with me because she will not see him.
I’ve been going through this with my husband over the past few years ( at least few years that I know of) and the main thing that I’m more frustrated with than anything is when he turns it around that it’s my fault that he’s lying to me! God gave you intuition, pay attention to the gut feeling, There is no trust. Don’t feed into the false belief that he will change.
In order to have a truly fulfilling relationship (or even start a healthy relationship) with a great guy, you need to come from a place of strength, confidence, and fulfillment.
Whenever a relationship goes sour (or fails to launch), it’s almost always caused by some tiny fear, doubt, worry or insecurity that grows and festers until you feel overwhelmed by the whole ordeal. Your fears and worries compel you to confirm whether they’re real or imaginary.
A man who promises certain behavior that his partner also promises i.e. I don’t think its necessary for someone to do that. I don’t have a problem with him smoking it to relieve pain. In spite of everyone saying that Pot isn’t physically addictive, a person can still become addicted to it. What I have a problem with is someone who uses substances to escape their lives.
like keeping intimate things private and then talks about their lovemaking adventures with someone else was lying when he agreed to keep things private but never intended to. Also, when he was in his 20’s he overcame a Cocaine addiction. At the end of the day, the problems are still there . He doesn’t remember conversations, he stinks of weed, and when he is stoned, I don’t know if his behavior is just him being a little weird that day (silly–which I love), or is it because he’s stoned.
If he apologies (sincerely), use your womanly God given intuition. He should have been honest with me when we first started dating 18 months ago, about how much he smokes it. You have enough evidence he is lying, say goodbye and move on! Try to write properly using complete sentences and punctuation.
Lying underminds any relationship and calling one out when it is discovered is their consequence for lying and the liar deserves having someone being upset about it. Today’s attitude of everyone lies so just get over it, as your article implies and do not make a fuss about it, is just plain wrong! I don’t like being in public with him after he drives us to a restaurant after smoking it, and he is slurring his words at the restaurant, and doesn’t even notice that he has food running down his chin onto his shirt.
If u catch your friend or lover in one lie…be assured it is just the tip of the iceberg and u need to dump this person ASAP. The liar is wrong and that is just unacceptable behavior, so go find someone who is trustworthy. It has to do with his pure lack of moral ethics (selfishness) on how to treat a woman. He is an almost 50 year old man, a business professional, not a 20 year old surfer/stoner dude.
Not That Long Ago, I Found Out That The Person I Was Seeing Three Years Ago, Lied About Having A Girlfriend. He Played Games, Much Like Hide & Seek He Told Me He Didn’t Have Anyone. I have a sort of “friend’s with benefits” thing with this guy. It will be a big help nfor me to better understand the guy. I been dating guy for like 3 months he keeps lying to me about everything like he will tell me he is at work but he is at his friends house or he will ask me to go on date with him and he will call and cancel it saying im sorry I forgot my brothers birthday today and when I look at shear with location my friends I found him at home and when I text him asking him how is the party he still lie to me and say it is good but he is home last night he cut our date saying ii have to go to work but he went home and he texted me saying it is so busy here at work but he wasn’t at work he was home and he went to his friends house I really don’t know why he is lying about those things can someone help me plz thank you. If you want your girlfriends to respond, they should be able to read your writings.
I know he’s been hooking up with other women and I believe he knows I’ve been hooking up with others too. There is no reason for anyone to be dishonest or unfaithful.